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No Title Here. Just Read!

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  I'm writing this blog with a mix of emotions swirling inside me, last week was a rollercoaster of emotions for me. I went house hunting, and trust me when I say it's exhausting. I saw house after house, trekked far and wide in search of a perfect one, but none of them seemed satisfactory. The stress was taking a toll on me or should I say, was messing with my mental health, I found myself frustrated and irritable. I was lying on the couch, trying to sleep off a headache, when something weird happened. I had this vivid image of myself writing a blog post... but here's the thing, it didn't have a title! At first, I thought it was strange, but as I "read" through the imaginary post, I saw myself pouring my heart out and crying. It was wild. Even though I'm not crying now, I have to admit, I'm still feeling a bit hurt. It was a really odd experience, but it sparked something in me to write this post. Reflecting on my behavior, I realized that I had hurt ...

Movie Review : Mufasa - The Lion King.

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I finally emerged from my ridiculously busy schedule to finish watching this movie... and by 'finally', I mean it took me a whopping 6 days! Yep, you read that right - 6 whole days to watch one movie. Don't judge me, I've been busy! After reading countless reviews of this movie, I felt motivated to share my own thoughts. I must confess: until the very end, I couldn't tell Mufasa and Taka apart, until Taka betrayed Mufasa- both lions looked alike to me! And don't even get me started on the lionesses. This is probably why I've never been a fan of K-dramas, where everyone seems to blend together.  What I love about the movie. I love that it started with Rafiki sharing the story, and the little humor Timon and Pumbaa were serving us. I admire Mufasa's bravery and strength and I firmly believe that he deserved to be a king. I also loved Mufasa and Taka's friendship highlighted in the movie. In my perspective, Taka's character didn't demonstrate t...

Book Review: The Girl With The Louding Voice By Abi Dare.

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  I know you'd identify me as a girl who loves reading Middle Grade Books, Yes, I'm still that girl. Last year, I came across numerous reviews of "The Girl With The Louding Voice" that piqued my interest. Initially, I ignored them, thinking it wasn't my kind of book. However, as time passed, my curiosity got the better of me, and I decided to give it a try. I'm glad I did, now, I'm moved to explore more books written by Nigerian authors. Here's my take on the book.... About the book. The book deals with themes of child marriage, domestic servitude and violence against women. The book revolves around Adunni, a 14 year old girl who is desperate for education, after her mother's death, things take a devastating turn, driven by poverty her father sold her as a third wife to an old man. Asides from being mistreated by the first wife and being subjected to violent sexual relations by her husband, Adunni's situation became more calamitous and she had ...

Lessons From A Wild Ride: Reflecting on 2024

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 2024 was quite a crazy year for me. From January to December, it has been a wild ride. In this blog post, I'll give a summary of some of the highlights and lessons I've learned. Here goes... The year started off not so well for me, as circumstances had me spending the first two to three months at home instead of resuming a new academic session. I answered many questions about my stay at home 🥲, but I also used those three months wisely. Aside from tons of house chores, I got myself into doing a lot of things. Firstly, I got into reading books I love, which I later found out were called Middle Grade Books – they're books for children aged 8-12. This started around early December 2023. Then, sometimes around late December, while randomly scrolling on Instagram, I came across a lady, @whatafomareads, whose Instagram account I'll call a bookish goodness. It's full of MG recommendations, some of which I've read and enjoyed. I also came across other random accounts ...

What Makes My Taste Buds Dance? My Top 5 Foods.

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After writing about friendship in my last blog, a friend jokingly asked me to write about food next. To me, that was a good idea; then I concluded... why not write about my favorite meals? Personally, I love food (I mean, who doesn't?😜). If I'm asked what my favorite food or meal is, my usual reply would be "anything goes." I have dislikes, though.  So I thought, if I were given the opportunity to pick my top 5 foods, what would I pick? In this blog, I'll be sharing my top 5 picks. (Apologies if you don't understand Yoruba; I'll try to provide English translations as much as possible.) So here goes; let's take it in descending order: 5. Àmàlà + Draw Soups/ Àmàlà + Éfò Rírò (Vegetable Soup) . Yes! Like most Yoruba people, I love Amala with draw soups (okro soup, ogbono, specifically "ewédú" ). There are different types: Cassava flour ( Àmàlà láfún ), Yam flour ( Àmàlà isu ), and Plantain flour ( Àmàlà ògèdè ). I can take either of the three...

4 Lessons I Learned From My Messy Friendships.

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I asked someone, 'What do you think about the word "friendship"?' The response was "Love is Friendship." We all have different opinions about "friendship." I recently came across a quote by Maya Angelou: "Friendship takes work. Finding friends, nurturing friendships, scheduling FaceTime - it all takes a tremendous amount of work. But it's worth it." I couldn't agree more; friendship does take a lot of work, and finding the right friends is just the beginning. However, I must confess that friendship is an extremely sensitive and personal topic for me. Writing this blog takes a lot of effort and vulnerability on my part, as I've navigated numerous ups and downs in my own friendships,from friends who used me for their own entertainment to those who pretended to care but didn't truly value our relationship. In fact, sharing my thoughts and experiences about friendship feels daunting, but I hope that by doing so, I can connect...

Book Review: "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe

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I must confess, I'm not typically drawn to classic literature; however, "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe was a great read for me. About the Book. The novel tells the story of Okonkwo, a feared warrior, wrestling champion, and leader of the Igbo clan of Umuofia. The book is divided into three parts.  Part 1 introduces Okonkwo, a strong, hardworking man obsessed with his masculinity and struggling with a bad temper, as well as his family, including his lazy and improvident father, Unoka, and the customs and traditions of Igbo society.  Part 2 explores the events leading up to Okonkwo's exile and the arrival of Christian missionaries during his time in Mbanta.  In Part 3 , after Okonkwo's return from exile, he finds that the missionaries have changed his village. Okonkwo's determination to maintain his cultural heritage, despite the crumbling world around him, is both inspiring and heartbreaking. What I Love About the Book. ✓ The author's vivid storytelli...